A lot of women fear of getting older. It is curious that mostly these are not the middle aged or elderly women – in most cases they are women in their mid twenty’s and early thirty’s. This is because a woman is most flourishing and youthful in that period, and of course she is afraid to lose these qualities. Besides, nowadays everything is about being beautiful, young and thin – this is what the mass media tell us and what we think we believe. There are even dreadful cases of eighteen year old girls having botox injections in order to prevent early wrinkles (Dear God, just think of that!).
Yes, your body and your soul will change with age, but who made you believe that it is bad? Of course you should always keep good look and lead healthy lifestyle in order not to turn into a bone yard after you are fifty. I’ve personally seen women over seventy who look that stunning and attractive that it is hard to believe that they looked any greater when they were young. If you experience some fears of getting older, here are most common of them:
• Loss of youth. As stated above, woman gets even more beautiful with age. Turn around, and you will see gorgeous women like I’ve described above. Maybe they are few, but what makes you believe you won’t be one of them?
• Loss of freedom. You can’t even imagine how this fear is pointless. On the contrary, you will get more freedom with age! Your children will be grown up and independent and you will have plenty of time for yourself.
• Loss of identity. With age you will reveal more and more beautiful traits in yourself. A person hardly can cognize oneself through lifetime, if ever, and believe me – a lot of interesting discoveries are waiting for you.
• Excess weight. This is not the rule of thumb. Weight gain as you are getting older is a result of neglectful attitude towards yourself, and sometimes a hereditary trait, but everything depends on you and your will to work at yourself.
• Loss of style. As you live your life further you understand that fashion is just a fleeting fancy, and you begin to be superior to it.
As you live your long and exciting life don’t forget that first of all you are not a mother, not a wife, not a daughter, but a woman. Give yourself a pleasure of just being yourself and living to your pleasure. Go out with friends, laugh, read good books, sleep a lot, work out, participate in social life, in general – live your life without regretting anything good that has ever happened to you and continue to bring good into your life and the lives of the others.
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