How To Build Self-Esteem In Your Kid
What exactly is self-esteem?I will tell you. Self-esteem is the collection of beliefs or feelings that we have about ourselves, or our self-perceptions. How do we get self-esteem? How to we build self-esteem? Is it something we are born with? Do boys have better self-esteem than girls? The reason i am asking you all these questions is because we can not go through life or even survive without good self-esteem.
So how do we help our kids building good self-esteem? By frequently telling them that they did good! That they made it! That they have done it! That they tried there best! That they are great human beings! I could really make a long list about how we do it.But the most important thing is by telling them that we care about them and that we are behind them 100 percent all the way. That way we make them feel secure. That way they manage to build self-esteem a lot easier than they would have if they feel insecure. I have a 9 year old son. His self-esteem is from another world!Why i ask? Has it got something to do with us as parents? He has a sister who is 7.Her self-esteem is ok. But nothing like her older brother. Do that mean that we have done a miserable job with her? Of course not.Kids are different. All kids are different!
It usually helps if your kid is good in some type of sports. Because lets face it.Being good in sports usually means that you will build a killer self-esteem! The most important thing of them all is to talk to your kids and make them understand that we are all different. Some of us are short,some of us are tall,some of us are black and some of us are white. Having bad self-esteem do mean that you are a bad person. It simply means that you don not believe in yourself for some reason.What reason?There can be a million reasons why. This is why people spend thousand of dollars every year, going to doctors to figure out how they can boost there self-esteem. Do you have good or bad self-esteem?If you have bad self-esteem i know that with a little work you can transform into a different type of human being. I know i have been there.I have went up that ladder one time before. And i did it. That is why i have good self-esteem now because i know that i can manage everything i put my mind into. It is a great feeling!
by Morten Linna
Morten Linna are auther of multiple e-books:
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