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A method is the manner in which something is done. You can do anything in one of five ways:

1) Merely doing it
2) Doing it with a purpose
3) Doing it to achieve a set goal
4) Doing it following a set plan
5) Doing it after first visualizing the outcome that you seek

You can achieve success in your endeavors by “doing” something following any one of these methods, but if you combine these methods then you are stacking the odds of success as far as you can in your favor.

In factories, shops, and offices across the world, there are millions of diligent workers who have learned to do their work well; and then, having learned, most people drudge and toil through the years settling for second best as most are not really contented with their lot, and are therefore not succeeding and achieving their true desires.

Mere doing rarely leads to success.

Purposeful doing is one step ahead of mere doing. It is stimulated by a desire to improve, and yet it does not guarantee success.

Doing something in the quest of achieving a written outcome or goal is the point at which you begin to stack some odds in your favor.

Why? Because you now have a specific, defined “point of arrival”. This releases the power of your subconscious to help to guide you towards achieving that specific outcome. But still, having a written goal and taking action upon it is no guarantee in itself of success.

Doing something following a set plan, with the aim of achieving a dated, specific, written outcome (or goal), will now put you well on the path to achieving it.

It allows you to break down the steps and action needed to achieve your goal, and to quantify, timeline and track your progress toward it. And by setting a goal and assigning a timeframe, you will have harnessed some of the power of your subconscious to assist you in getting there on time.

But there is one more chip which you can stack in your favor to release even more power…

Yes, you guessed it, you should also make use of the law of attraction by regularly setting aside some quiet time to vividly, in detail, create some mental pictures and watch a mental movie of yourself working towards attaining your goal, as well as enjoying the rewards of the success which you seek.

This is like the turbo-charger in your quest for success, but it is only that. A turbo-charger on it’s own won’t budge your car. Harnessing the power of attraction is not some magic wand that will materialize that which you are visualizing. We all live in the real world, and taking action toward your goal… the “doing” part, is indispensable.

So to succeed, don’t just do. First define your purpose. Then set a goal. Then create a plan and timeline to reach your goal. And finally, regularly visualize yourself achieving and enjoying the fruits of your goal.

Follow this method of doing, be a little patient, and your success is assured. Go forth!

A low self esteem comes from filling the mind with negative thoughts about yourself, and them becoming so familar that they become beliefs that drive out view of our worth and value. To build self esteem we need to create new thought patterns about ourselves that change those negative beliefs to positive beliefs about our worth. Often this means breaking an old habit and starting a new thinking pattern. A very effective way to do this is to think and speak positive affirmations regularly.

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Affirmations will truly set you free. Nourish your mind with these positive affirmations. Over time, you will overcome your obstacles and it will sustain a healthy state of mind for future success to come.

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